The ads are in the paper, on tv and on the radio. Get him a grill, think about a new shirt, wash his car, a new fishing pole is nice. All this anticipation heightens our senses to the reality that many of us will not be doing any of these things this Father’s Day. Think about these questions:
- Who are our fathers for us?
- Friend, protector, coach, guide, teacher, provider, cheerleader, …
- What was meaningful to them? What was meaningful for you to do together?
- Go fishing, hike, dance, play cards, build, fix cars, play sports, motorcycle together
How do we go on celebrating Father’s Day, when dad is no longer here? Remember.
Watch one of his favorite movies, visit another dad or send a card to another dad, tell the stories, have the family barbecue in his honor, re-use his fish hooks or ties into something creative. And no matter how long ago dad died, it’s still ok to cry.
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